“Guilty feet have got no rhythm”

Why you don’t have to feel guilt when you eat my cakes.

When I started selling cakes and bakes I never thought the biggest non-selling brick wall I’d hit would be guilt.

Guilt plays a huge part in the buyers decision whether to make that purchase or not.

So many men and women like to eat healthy, lose weight, keep fit, look good and that is FANTASTIC, but that doesn’t mean you can’t eat my cakes. I’m talking specifically about my cakes here because I know exactly what goes into them.

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I’m not here for the big profit hit, or to be the next Mary Berry and be a millionaire (although that would be great I’m not going to lie!) I’m here to make a difference to how you eat treats and desserts, I’m here to give you a taste sensation, I’m here to take you away from the nasty ingredients that many mass produced cakes and bakes have in them, like palm oils, artificial sweeteners, preservatives, propylene glycol, fructose syrups, and trans fats.

I keep my ingredients clean and uncluttered and fresh and homemade. But the guilt isn’t just about being unhealthy, guilt also raises its head in the form of enjoyment.lib choc face

Enjoyment, pleasure, and happiness when eating is a bit of a taboo subject, we often don’t express our pleasure in eating something that tastes delicious and is seen as a treat, we eat it in secret or quickly so no-one sees us…scared that someone may judge us for making a wrong food choice or in case someone wants to take it away.

This has to be stopped!

Maybe it’s because I’m a Taurean and food is my best friend, this is why I cannot let guilt ruin your enjoyment of a cake that has been made by me, you’re killing my best friend!

Seriously though,

As a baker, days and weeks go into planning a new bake, reading recipe books, combining recipes, trial bakes, sourcing ingredients, learning new methods, purchasing the right equipment, listening to peoples feedback and wants, planning presentation and making sure it hits the taste spot.

I do this so that you can enjoy your treat GUILT FREE.

Know that all the effort I have and love and passion are poured into your bakes, know that each and every box I deliver I do it with pride and care and commitment. So eat that cake with pride, get out your best plates and dessert forks and make that cupcake the queen of your table. Know that all the ingredients when eaten sensibly will not harm your beautiful bodies. Libby bluebellsv age 2 1-2-4

Love yourself, love your food and don’t feel guilty.


No-prove iced buns


These deliciously squidgy, thickly iced buns are the perfect sweet treat and ready in 20 minutes! This no-prove recipe is a firm favorite in our house, whilst the kids opt for a million sprinkles on theirs, I simply love a glace cherry…just like the old days.

Makes 12

Bake time 20 mins


285ml semi skimmed milk

2 large eggs

340g self raising flour

1/2 tsp salt

55g butter

85g caster sugar

150g sultanas

12 glace cherrys or sprinkles

For the icing

200g icing sugar

Water to make a thick spoonable consistency..1-2 tsp.


Pre heat oven to 190c, 375*,gas 5

Line 12 muffin tin holes with bun cases

Put milk and eggs in a jug and whisk until combined.

Put flour and salt in a bowl and rub in the butter with your fingers, or use a food processor.  Stir in sultanas and sugar.

Mix in the beaten egg and milk muxture to make a batter.

Spoon into bun cases making sure they are 2/3 full.

Bake in a pre heated oven for 15-20 minutes.

Take out once baked and let cool.

Make icing by mixing icing sugar and water. Spoon generously over each bun, smooth over with a small palette knife and top with a glace cherry or sprinkles.


This recipe is taken from the book “bake me a cake as fast as you can” by Miranda Gore Browne



Make a wish with Pepparkakor

lick n drip caramel cake-2.jpgHow did I not know about Pepparkakor!

Whilst munching on ginger snaps, my friend cracked hers in her hand and said

“oh I didn’t get to make a wish”.

…puzzled… I then had to know what she meant. After a quick conversation and a Google search I was quick to learn that Pepparkakor is a traditional Swedish festive treat, baked with dark flavoursome spices and rolled nice and thin for that lovely crisp snap. Pepparkakor is an integral part of the Christmas feast in Sweden and is also used to decorate their Christmas trees, often iced with decorative patterns and images.

Swedish customs says you should place the Pepparkakor in the palm of your hand and press it with your thumb. If the biscuit breaks into 3 you get to make a wish!

So I get to eat biscuits AND make wishes!

All my dreams had come true!

I simply HAD to make some!

My children were so excited that we were making a wishing biscuit that all 3 decided they wanted to take some to school so ALL their classmates could try the custom too.

Overall we made around 90 biscuits in a very short time, so easy to make and beautiful and crisp, it’s ridiculously hard to resit eating them as soon as they come out of the oven!

The recipe for Pepparkakor is right here if you want to try it.


Pre heat oven to FAN 180

Line several large baking sheets with greaseproof paper


250g Butter

300g Caster Sugar

1 egg

1 tablespoon golden syrup

450g plain flour

2 tablespoons of bicarbonate of soda

2 teaspoons of cinnamon

2 teaspoons of ginger (more if you really like ginger!)

2 teaspoons of ground cloves  (we omitted these as no body likes them in our house!)


In a large bowl cream the butter and sugar.

Stir in the egg and syrup.

Sift together the flour, spices and bicarb and add to the mixture.

Roll into a dough.

Roll out till its approx 0.25cm thick and cut into shapes using a cutter.

Place on baking tray and bake for approx 20 minutes or until flat, dark and crisp.

Cool on cooling rack until cold and store in air tight container.

May I suggest a lovely stroll, on a long winding path, surrounded by trees whispering in their branches, a river gently ebbing and flowing, a pocket full of wishing biscuits and a loved one by your side, break the biscuits and wish for your future adventures.


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Kid chaos in the kitchen

It’s the weekend!

It’s time to slow down the usual morning rush around and enjoy the comforts of being at home…but I soon get itchy fingers and want to get baking! It’s the weekend and weekends mean the kids get to bake too!

My 3 young children Tom, Robin and Libby see me baking ALOT, and often sit and watch, stir, throw things in the bowl, pester me until I forget what I’m doing and wait around until it’s licking time…the bowl that is! Sometimes I banish them from the kitchen altogether if what I’m doing is for a client or is very important, and that makes me feel bad because they want to learn, but because of all the questions, and pestering, and poking, and licking, sometimes its just not feesible, so out they go!…until the weekend!

Questions, pestering, poking and licking!

So this weekend we decided to make a Treacle Spiced Traybake ..(insert yummy, yummy noises here…)

It’s a really easy recipe that involves putting 8 ingredients in a bowl and mixing like crazy!

So I put my 6 year old in charge of the weighing scales, (this will obviously help with his maths I’m thinking) and my 5 and 2 year old in charge of dumping in the ingredients and mixing!

Weighing out is great for number recognition, adding and subtracting!gingerbread traybake-2.jpg

Of course there’s always one who doesn’t like their designated job and soon starts to squawk and chirp about the fact that “Libby is mixing too hard and I can’t get my spoon in”..or  “why has Libby got to break in 2 eggs and I’ve only got to break in 1?” (cos theres 3 kids and 4 eggs love and she’s the cutest, decision made) .

Remember your baking ‘memories’

In all seriousness though, baking with children is a fantastic shared experience, you’re giving them a skill for life and hopefully providing happy memories (unless I’m your Mum  and then you get some nice memories followed by a personality change into Gordon Ramsey when my OCD kicks in about how much mess 3 kids can make in half an hour! )But honestly, if you can stop worrying about how much mess it makes, and time (it takes sooooo much longer!), the experience you get when baking with children is amazing, and they amaze themselves too when they see what a few simple ingredients make.

If you are a brilliant parent you can actually get your children to clean up with you afterwards, but my kids are too busy licking the 20,000 spoons they have used and any cake batter that has happened to fall on the counter with their tongues! gingerbread traybake-3.jpg

When we finished our bake I said to my children, so ‘who’s had fun?”


3 little hands went up…and thats why we bake x

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Recipe -Treacle spiced traybake


225g soft margarine

175g caster sugar

225g black treacle

275g self-raising flour

2 tsp baking powder

4 eggs

4 tablespoons milk

Icing sugar to finish


Pre-heat oven to Fan 160, 180, gas 4.

Grease and base line a 12 x 9 inch tray with greaseproof paper.

Measure all ingredients into a bowl and beat well for  2 minutes until well blended.

Turn the mixture into the prepared tin and bake for 40 minutes.

Leave to cool in the tin.

Finish with water icing or a dust of icing dust of icing sugar, whichever your preference.

5 year old expectations-mental exhaustion

This year it is planned that children will leave junior school with a statement that they either meet, or do not meet age related expectations. This means that seven years of primary education are summed up with an equivalent of pass or fail.

Raised Standards.

Unfortunately, this does not mean that the government have invested millions into our crumbling buildings or raised the pay of hardworking and dedicated teachers and support staff. It does not even mean that the children are being given a higher standard of education than previously. “Raising Standards” just means that you have increased the threshold for the equivalent of a “pass mark”.

Under the new system, the teachers have to teach 10 or 11 year old children work they would not have previously done until secondary. Teachers have to get their pupils to meet age related expectations which are significantly more challenging than they have previously been. We have the same children as last year: the same learning difficulties, the same social and emotional challenges and yet teachers are expected to magically up their game and increase what these children learn.

Teachers are committed and dedicated to getting the best possible results from every child in their class. They are already at breaking point. You cannot expect them to work harder than they already do.

The fact stands that no matter how hard some children work this year, it is very unlikely they will meet age related expectations.
Is this really fair? Can we really judge our children against a standardized norm? Do we want a generation who grow up to feel they are failures already at the age of 11? 

What matters is whether they love books and has got a love of language. It matters that they are creative and imaginative. These are not standards by which they are judged in the new SATs. Similarly, in today’s society it does not matter if you can’t do long division.We no longer teach our children to be inquisitive and love learning for its own sake. It is now just an exercise in exam technique.

It is not my child’s fault that he was born in the school year that all the goalposts change. It is not his fault that the new tests are judging him against standards that he will struggle to reach. In Government, you do not see the child who burst into tears tonight at the thought that he would not be able to “make the grade”… Do you want a generation of disaffected children? Do you want children to be reluctant to learn as no matter how hard they try they will always be found wanting? If the answer is no, I would ask you to reconsider this new change to the education system, and instead concentrate on “raising the standards” of education in its true sense: a love of learning and the joy of achievement.

Words taken from a letter to the Prime Minister, written by worried parent Lucy Hoggan.

tom sad.jpgRe written by Debbie Henson for this blog to hit home to every parent who is living this hellish education system.

Photo credit: my son who couldn’t finish his food through sheer exhaustion after a day at school. He is 5.

Is it ever too late to say sorry?


Something happens…..and for whatever reason you didn’t say sorry.
How long can it go until you can never say those words that need to be said?

Time is a healer

Will time heal the wound?
Time passes for everyone, everybody says “things get better in time”…but do they?  If you have ever said something or done something you need to apologise for and you didn’t say sorry how long would it be before it ate you up inside?

Choose carefully your words, as once they are spoken the cannot be forgotten,  only forgiven.

Saying sorry is a hard process.  It leaves you naked, your soul turned bare, waiting for the response…you can say sorry 1000 times and some people will never forgive you, what if that’s the case, you will have let your guard down for nothing, laid yourself open for no gain….but saying sorry is not about gain. It’s about saying “I am wrong”.

We have been taught from a very young age being wrong is bad, so bottling up a ‘sorry’ is expected…no-one wants to be wrong do they?
Everybody makes mistakes in life, says the wrong thing, does the wrong thing, we accept that children make mistakes often and teach them how to react differently or talk about the mistake, so why does that stop as adults? Being an adult has so many stresses and strains attached to it and the world is one big mystery …we are bound to make mistakes and say the wrong things now and then. So when you do, and you will, please explain why and say ….sorry. There is no time limit on sorry.

Everything is a learning curve


Peanut Butter & White Chocolate Blondies

It took me a long time to surrender to the fact that brownies can also be blonde, but now Ive gone blonde, I’ll never go back!

If you haven’t tried these before, put them on your “to eat” list,

because believe me, they are delicious!


100g butter, softened

150g peanut butter, crunchy preferably

1tsp vanilla paste

175g golden caster sugar

1 egg

75g good quality white chocolate

75g chopped mixed nuts

125g plain flour

1tsp baking powder

Extra white chocolate for decoration

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Pre heat oven to fan 15o. Line a square tin with greaseproof paper.

In a large bowl beat the peanut butter and butter together until creamy.

Add the vanilla, sugar and egg and beat again until light and fluffy.

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Chop up the white chocolate into nice sized chunks and add to mixture along with the chopped nuts.

Sift the flour and baking powder into the mixture.

Spoon the mixture into the prepared tin, the mixture should be quite firm and solid, smooth out the top so it bakes evenly.

Bake the mixture in a pre heated oven (150 fan) on the middle shelf for about 35-40 minutes. The outside will crust slightly but the middle still needs to be fudgy to be a true “blonde”.

Once baked fully, remove from the oven and leave to cool in the tin. Sprinkle the decorative chocolate chunks over the top whilst its still warm, mark into 12 pieces  whilst warm for easy cutting later.

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Make the chocolate chunks uneven and misshaped,and when you choose a piece of blondie that has got huge chunks of warm melted chocolate on it, its like winning the chocolate lottery!

Once completely cool, remove from tin and slice with a sharp knife into 12 delicious pieces.

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Enjoy…mwah x

Because blondes have more fun...; )
Because blondes have more fun…; )